When you first see a girl you like or attached to a few things may run through your mind. You might ask yourself, before approaching that person, are they single? Do they think I'm good looking? Are they looking for a relationship or just someone to have relations with? While all these are good questions to ask you may want to make sure you have all your ducks in a order before building yourself up and shooting yourself down.
1. First things first, to catch a sheep ones must be in sheep’s clothing, while this may sound like the old saying "wolves in sheep’s clothing" no one wants someone who's not similar to them in some ways. You may say opposites attract, but live with someone who does everything opposite from you and see how long that last. So to say it in simpler words, what you put out is what you'll pull in.
2. Second. The eyes tell you everything. If someone likes you, you will be able to tell in a matter of minutes or even seconds. If a girl looks you straight in the eye and then looks you up and down, you’re in there like swim wear. Your only task will now be not to f**k it up, lol. However, if she plays the glancing game, looks at you for a while then goes back to what she's doing only to check up on you again, then you may have to do a little more work. Just remember, girls are like fish. You throw out the bait but you dont wanna pull it in to early cause they'll know whats going on. But you also dont wanna leave the bait in the water to long cause they'll just eat around the hook until all the food is gone. In other words have good timing.
3. Now after you put on your Sunday's best and cast your line into the water, the task is now to approach the person or the prey. When approach the prey it important to keep in mind the following: be strong but not forceful, confident but not to arrogant, gentle but not a push over. Girls like it when a guy knows what they want in life, so dont make it all be about her but you dont want to ignore what she has to say. So after you say "Hi my name is..." you want to keep the conversation going until you get what you want, whether it be her phone number, a date or that one night stand (which should not be your reason) but whatever. If you’re good at making girls laugh then make her laugh. If you’re smart then teach her something. If you’re talented then let her see your talents. The object is to show your personality without necessarily being yourself. You may also want to throw in some compliments here and there, but not to much cause then you'll look like you dont do this often.
4. So you got the number or the date and half the battle is won. She gave you the chance to prove yourself so dont let her down. Be a gentleman with a backbone, pull out the chair and open the door, and if there’s a problem (with the service or in general) then address it. Now I'm not saying go and pick a fight to show that you’re a macho man but just show that you’re a strong individual. When out on your date or on the phone, it’s important to learn as much about the person and find out most of the similarity as possible. No one wants to be on the phone or on a date with silent nothings in the air the whole time, so try to drag out each conversation, but not to much, because too much of anything is bad for you. Also try to have a list of topics in your head to choose from but let her bring up topics as well. As I mentioned in the first post I did, I'm kinda like Hitch so if you watched to movie then you'll know about the 90-10 rule at the end of the date, but that’s if it goes well.
5. If you made it here then you have nothing to worry about. She should either love you or hate you by now. You should be setting up the second date or running far away as possible. Not everyone you think is attractive or attracted to you is always perfect for you. If you’re not with the person you want to be with then you may have to go through test and trails to get to that special someone but if you follow these key rules then you should have no problem. Of course there situations that allow you twist the rules around a little bit but as long as you get the drift then you should be ok.
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