It Not Me...Its YOU!

While some of us have a hard time getting into a relationship other just have a hard time keeping one. Hence the title "It not me its YOU!" So what are you doing wrong that all your relationship goes sour? No one answer is correct, but there may be somethings that you do or don't do that pushes it to the brink of destruction.

Trust. In any relationship trust is a must, if you can't trust a person you'll find yourself going through his/her cellphone and laptop trying to find any hint of cheating or infidelity. I know I've been a victim of the sneaky girlfriend that asks a million and one question about where your going and where you been but it all boils down to trust. Ask any couple who's been together long enough, trust is a major factor.

Commitment. You know you've seen the couple who's been together for 4-8 years and they still aren't married, why is that? Its either because one of them doesn't want to give up the single life or both of them don't think their right or ready for each other. You have some people that will stay in a relationship just so they wont be single and you have other who will stay in a relationship just for the advantages. Advantages of sex, a steady date, some companionship or whatever the case may be.

Communication. This is why most of my relationship ended. There's a problem with a situation or someone's doing something wrong and no one says anything hoping it will just go away. Your girlfriend is to flirty or your boyfriend hangs out with his friends to much. Now some people will address the problem but plenty times you have the passive person who will hope it will stop as time goes on. Another part or communication is saying what you want from the person or the relationship. Other times you have someone who wants you read their mind and know their every need. While I must say you do get to know someone with time, knowing everything about a person is not the others job in a relationship.

These are just some of the core reasons for a relationship failing but I'm pretty sure you broke a few hearts some other ways.